
Mostly, of course, I go home when I can swing a vacation about every 2-3 years. And there are compelling reasons to go there—people to see, geography I hold close, familiar things oft-missed. And there's also a sense of responsibility to that trip: My parents won't visit me here, so we would never see each other if I didn't go home.

But I miss striking out to places new. I saw this cottage on Unique Home Stays. I've never had a holiday like this, staying at a beautiful house in a such an incredible setting. And I found myself fantasizing about it, trying to imagine really staying there.

I'm tired of simply overwriting old memories with updated versions of the same things. I feel like I'm too young to just beat that path back and forth between Dublin and Toronto. I used to relish discovery. And even this little fantasy felt liberating and exciting. Wouldn't it be lovely? Where would you go?

All images used with direct permission from Unique Home Stays.
beautiful!
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DeleteWhy won't your parents come to Toronto?
ReplyDeleteHa! There's a loaded question!
DeleteOh, you read my mind. I have been considering traveling somewhere alone for a wknd I want to get out so bad. I'm at the age where friends seem too busy or too cash poor to be able to go with me.. among other things. I would love to hop down to Seattle and walk for miles around the city each day... breakfast, lunch and dinner out at cozy little restaurants, and museums all day.
ReplyDeleteSounds divine - I hope you do it!
Deletethese photos are beautiful, jane, and i understand what you mean about traveling somewhere other than where family lives. for me it's either a two-hour drive to orlando or a two-hour plane trip to pennsylvania. with a brother in california now, though, and friends recently relocated to boston and new york, i've got to put more travel on the books in 2012.
ReplyDeletethanks for the inspiration! i hope you decide to take a wonderful trip, too.
Thanks Megan. Taking vacation is always a challenge where I work, so I doubt I'll be going anywhere again for another couple of years (I was just home last fall). Maybe you can go somewhere and I can live vicariously!
DeleteI got stuck on that site, looking at all the properties. Hard to choose!
ReplyDeleteYou brought me out of hiding with this post. I love your blog! But because I dream of going back to England one day, particularly to North Yorkshire again, this post engaged me even more so. Thank you!
Hi Steph - Thanks for coming out of hiding. It's lovely to "meet"!
DeleteI hope you get to plan your trip to England some time soon!
I used to travel a lot growing up and in my early 20's but it's been ages and I'm dying to go somewhere new as well, Jane! South Africa would be wonderful especially in accommodations such as these! But, would also love to see Turkey, Croatia, Vietnam, and India. And, my list could go on.
ReplyDeleteBut, a lovely little momentary fantasy before going off to bed. Sweet dreams! :)
Thanks Beefy - Yes I traveled a lot in my 20's too. Since I emigrated, it felt for a long time like living here was a kind of prolonged vacation and now I'm settled here, the obligations to go home eat up the (rare) vacation I'm permitted to take.
DeleteBTW- have you traveled alone as a woman? What are your thoughts about it? You should write a post about it if so! I would love to hear a dialogue about that.
ReplyDeleteYes, I have traveled alone as a woman (I couldn't do it as anything else!) Quite a lot, in fact...
DeleteIt's not a big deal as far as I'm concerned. I would much rather travel alone than be in mediocre company. Though I have also enjoyed sharing adventures with special friends and partners, when possible.
Hmm, ok. I guess it's a foreign concept to me- especially when it wouldn't be to visit anyone... it would just be to stay in a hotel and see the sights.
DeleteHello Jane, I really identified with this post as I am a South African living in Dublin. All our big holidays are back to Cape Town and Pretoria in South Africa and although I know we are very lucky to travel back to such a beautiful country, I do hanker after exploring other far-off places. We do a fair amount of camping in the summer down in Wicklow which we love, but aaah the lure of places like Nantucket or Tuscany ... Have a lovely day.
ReplyDeleteThanks S-J! It is difficult to be split between two places, isn't it? I so rarely get time off work that when I do I have to catch up at home. But, somehow going home isn't a real holiday.
DeleteDream bedroom!
ReplyDeleteI live on the same continent with my family but there's a lot of them, and I feel the exact same way! I plan a vacation somewhere without family every ... three or four years? I always mean it to be 2, but then something comes up and I sacrifice my plans. Impromptu weekend roadtrips to places close-by that I've never seen keep me sane.
ReplyDeleteThey're not even really vacations when they're filled up with familial obligations!
DeleteMy family all lives on one continent, but there are a lot of them, and I feel the exact same way. I'm always traveling to spend time with them instead of enjoying the sights there or elsewhere. I try to plan a trip somewhere new - or just without family or work! - every two years, but it usually ends up being every three or four years. Impromptu or planned road trips to places close by that I have yet to see keep me sane!
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