So, today’s Sunday best is about taking stock. I’m positively evangelical about some new beauty products (isn’t that the best feeling?) and I feel like I’ve filled some holes in my closet. Now that Toronto has decided to have Dublinesque springs, a raincoat makes a wise investment. Have I told you that my absolute favourite thing to wear is this: Jeans, flats, a tank and a mannish cardigan, preferably cashmere? I usually add one of my many scarves.

I’ve blogged before about my uniform. I think the Mackintosh makes a sound addition (did I mention it was on sale at Lark?) In fact the only fictional part of this Sunday best is the earrings. I’m massively in love with them, but they may as well be a kabillion dollars for the likelihood I will invest in them. If I was going to spend that kind of money, I’d probably buy a bed instead... But, it's time for a spending respite.
It often seems this way with me… I find it hard to keep everything balanced all the time. One thing always runs away with itself. It might be exercise or shopping or reading or work. Maybe it’s never felt quite right to have everything in good measure, somehow it feels like a dispassionate, calculated kind of existence. I’m letting it slide because I seem to know when I need to pull back. And because it sometimes serves me well (especially when that tendency is work or creativity-related).
In the past, I’ve often wished I was generally more stable, more even-keeled. But I’ve really come to accept my mutable nature and trust that I have got good inherent weights and measures. Yes, I ebb and flow and sometimes that makes me feel uncertain, moody. But I’ve shaken off that idea that I should have a calm, even-keeled spirit. Because even though I’m a staid Cancerian girl in many ways, sometimes I’m the Mississippi!
Products: Traig Mackintosh from Lark / One-of-a-king earrings from Conroy Wilcox / My ring by Andrea Bonelli / Favourite tank from J.Crew / A.P.C. Classic Cardigan from La Garconne / Bootcut jeans from J.Crew / Bloch Arabian ballerina flats from Gravity Pope / Lipstick from Laura Mercier / Scotch Naturals in Heather Blush / Le Labo fragrance
Sometimes you just need to go on a tiny spending spree and restock those basics that you need. I am terrible at spending money. I can talk myself out of almost any purchase. However, I realized a few weeks ago that I have been wearing the same swimsuit for over six years! It was time to do some spending. :)
ReplyDeleteI too wish my life was more even but I walk with the same black dog described by Winston Churchill. I've decided to name mine Roger.
ReplyDeleteYou and I have the same uniform (though I'm usually in heels.)
Very nice, Jane! I love your new Mackintosh! Enjoy the rest of the weekend.
ReplyDelete"But I’ve really come to accept my mutable nature and trust that I have got good inherent weights and measures."
ReplyDeleteThis is the goal. Somedays I'm there, and it flows, and somedays I fight it. Everything changes, but I have to trust that the essential me is there.
Love every piece! I haven´t commented lately, but i got to tell you - i´m always so excited for your "sunday best" and "friday" posts - they´re really part of my weekend routine. Thanks for that!
ReplyDeleteah, Jane, this is lovely.
ReplyDeleteMy favorite uniform also, though it will be a long time before we'll be wearing sweaters in Virginia.
If you could see what I'm about to wear out in my yard to water you would laugh and laugh...
xo jane
Loving your basics and very similar to mine. I've hung on to an Armani mac because it's so classic and so glad it's come back into trend again as I love the shape! Wishing you a very happy Memorial day!
ReplyDeletexo Mary Jo
I like that you accept your mutable nature and your inherent pulling back when it's the right time. I would like to say that about myself, too. Hmm, like that you made me think about this.
ReplyDeleteI also very much like your uniform and agree that a mack is an investment. Spring has been full of showers here, too. I invested in a good umbrella last Spring instead of buying more of the $20 ones and have actually been pleased to carry it!
That jacket is too perfect.
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