I cannot emphasize how much I love layering. Do you layer?? I typically wear 3-6 layers. My favourite place for lessons on layering is Totokaelo. When I go shopping, I try to imagine the piece as one layer of an existing ensemble, rather than as a standalone piece. It also broadens what I can look at. Perhaps it's just one element, a cuff or neck embellishment that I want to show off. Sometimes, it's amazing how a piece can become covetable only when seen in context of layers on top or beneath it.